Wednesday, June 6, 2012

WISDOM -- I TAKE IT WHERE I CAN GET IT

I'm attending a non-writer business conference this week. The organization is a consortium of some of the most innovative and successful people in their industry. Yesterday I attended a session where the speaker addressed the challenge of staying motivated over a long and often difficult career. Some of his advice hit home to me as a writer.

  • Visualize what could be and don't let anyone tell you your dreams are impossible.
  • Do what you do well regardless of what everyone else is doing. Following the herd will only lead to mediocrity.
  • Focus on the things that take you closer to your goal and let go of things that merely suck your time and energy.
  • Keep things in perspective. Avoid getting too low when things get rough, it'll get better. On the other hand, don't get carried away celebrating your victories because tomorrow you need to suit up and perform again or lose your momentum. 
No matter what path someone takes, apparently the map to success and happiness are pretty much the same. What's the best advice anyone ever gave you?

Monday, June 4, 2012

Marlene

We've all encountered that person who hates his/her day job and makes sure everyone knows it. The resentment he/she totes around is infectious and exhausting

People who like their work, in contrast, are a pleasure to be with even if I don't completely get their passion for mass transportation, retail operations, fifth-grade math or whatever it is that turns them on.

And then there's Marlene, a nurse at a local hospital's day-surgery unit.

I met Marlene last week when being prepped for my second cochlear implant. She cloaked efficiency in a friendly, easy manner and it was easy to see she enjoyed patient care.

After Marlene slipped non-skid socks on my feet and wrapped a blanket around me, she talked to me and Hubs about what would happen over the next three or four hours. As she spoke, she stroked my blanket-clad legs.

Was she conscious of stroking my legs or was the action instinctive? Had she picked up on the nervousness I thought I'd hid? Or did she make it a point to soothe every patient before surgery?

I didn't need answers to those questions to know I was in the presence of someone who wasn't just good at her work--she'd been called to it.

"I will be with you in the recovery room," she said.

Hubs and I shared a look, and I knew Marlene's statement reassured him as much as it did me.

Our health-care system has plenty of problems, but, thank God, it also has the Marlenes.

Have you encountered someone with a calling for his/her work? Please give this person a shout-out in comments.

Friday, June 1, 2012

HAVING A THRILLER OF A SUMMER


With summer here, I’m finding my reading choices have shifted with the season. Recently I’ve been especially enjoying some terrific romantic suspense books and thrillers. Who can resist Vince Flynn’s political thrillers or the latest Jack Reacher from Lee Child? But beyond the top ten of the New York Times Bestseller List, there are some great beach reads that take a bit more digging to discover.
 Out this week is a collection of short stories/novellas called LOVE IS MURDER by thirty superstars of the suspense genre. Sure, Sandra Brown’s name is on the cover in bold type, but don’t overlook gems by Brenda Novak, Laura Griffin, Roxanne St. Claire, and Houston’s own Will Simon. If you’re out and about in Houston on Sunday afternoon, stop by Murder by the Book on Bissonnet at 3:00 pm and get Will to sign your copy!
Speaking of Brenda Novak and Laura Griffin, I just finished their recent releases and both were terrific!! In Laura’s TWISTED  a young woman police detective teams with a hardened FBI profiler to find the twisted killer of young women. Laura knows her stuff when it comes to real life detective work and could teach CSI Miami a thing or two!
The hero of Brenda Novak’s INSIDE served fourteen years for a murder he didn't commit, but when he’s finally exonerated, must go back inside a high security prison undercover to protect his sister and her kids. Add a woman Chief Deputy Warden who tries to protect him and…well, things do heat up in more ways than one!
 So what are you reading? What do you recommend for a sunny afternoon at poolside?